Morning muse 9: Be a giver in love and not a beggar (relationship)

Be a giver in love and not a beggar ( relationship)

"There is confusion and chaos in the world in the name of love. Love with wisdom is eternal bliss. Love with selfishness or love for individual pleasure, sooner or later will bring misery and heartbreak. If you are in love with somebody don’t think that it will be forever, unless and until there is knowledge or wisdom in it. If your love is there to help others, nobody can destroy it, but if your love is to get something from the other, sooner or later, it will be broken into pieces.

Find out what you think love is. Do you think love is only for getting pleasure from others? If yes, then it is going to bring you pain. But if your love is there only to care, and you cannot be without it, then that is what true love is. It is your own nature. Then your relationship will be nurturing and it will last longer. So, if you are entering a relationship, go with the attitude, 'I am going to be a part of this person, give whatever I can, and contribute whatever I can to this person’s life'."

Demanding love destroys love. It's like sitting on a branch and cutting it. Best is to give love around you and not to demand anything. If you have to demand, then demand it from the divinity. You can demand anything from God because you don't know where he is. So you can demand and have patience. If children demand untimely things, then the mother won't give. Nature gives it to you, when you need it, at the right time.