Morning Muse 216 : Pebbles and the Ghee
Human destiny follows the law of nature: heavy actions sink us, light actions uplift us. No ritual can change this. Freedom from suffering begins when we understand this truth early and live accordingly.
2/4/20262 min read


A young man once came to the Buddha, overwhelmed with grief. His father had died, and though he knew that tears could not bring him back, his sorrow drove him to seek a miracle. He pleaded with the Buddha to perform a ritual that would ensure his father’s entry into heaven, convinced that a powerful spiritual master could overturn destiny through rites and prayers.
Seeing that reason would not reach a mind clouded by grief, the Buddha chose another way to teach. He asked the young man to bring two earthen pots. One was filled with ghee, the other with pebbles, and both were carefully sealed. The Buddha then instructed him to place the pots in a pond. They sank to the bottom.
Next, the Buddha asked him to break the pots open with a stick.
When the pots shattered, the ghee immediately floated to the surface, while the pebbles remained at the bottom. The Buddha then said, gently but firmly, that his part was done. Now the young man could call all the priests and miracle workers he wished and ask them to chant for the pebbles to rise and the ghee to sink.
The young man protested that this was impossible. Pebbles are heavier than water and must sink; ghee is lighter and must float. This, he said, was the unchangeable law of nature.
The Buddha nodded and replied that this very law also governs human life. If a person lives with actions that are heavy—filled with greed, cruelty, or ignorance—those actions pull him downward, just like pebbles in water. No ritual, prayer, or priest can lift him up.
If, on the other hand, a person lives with actions that are light—rooted in kindness, generosity, and wisdom—those actions naturally carry him upward, like ghee rising to the surface. No force can drag him down.
The Buddha’s teaching was clear and uncompromising: our fate is not decided by ceremonies performed after death, but by the quality of our conduct while alive. Nature is impartial. It rewards understanding, not belief; practice, not prayer.
The earlier we understand this law of nature and align our lives with it, the sooner we free ourselves from misery and suffering.
